Ok, to all of my TD family, thank you for the support. you all have been a big help. mostly because i am not a trusting person AT ALL! i just took what she told me as the TRUTH and went with it. his wife msg me on fb and i manipulated her into making things right for them. she did, and he left my house
[ my woman said that she told him to go home and that they could no longer be friends,that it was wrong]
Now last night she came and picked me up after dropping him off with his wife. and i am now at my home with my kids. I was told by my woman that it was an eye opener and that she never intended on leaving me but she wanted to make a point. [ All relationships i have ever been in end in a nasty breakup followed by many moons of binging, so in fact when i got the utilities shut off and started taking action it was to cover my ass. due to past issues]
now as far as i can tell there may be 2 sides to this coin, but i am inclined to accept the side that makes me rage less. Long story short: waited it out like a champ, won the battle with a lil bit of game and now i am home with my kids. it will take a while to get over all of the little white lies. oh well i have a freebie in my future.
Thank you all for your support.