I will not attempt to make you change your mind, but I ask that you consider one more thing.
People have bad days. It happens to all of us. If I may direct your attention to this thread:
http://darklygaming.com/forum/threads/ban-request-infectedmushr00m-saxman-the-virgin-slayer.10782/
The first user that was reported, InfectedMushr00m was being abusive to anyone and everyone. Generally just a bad environment around this guy.
Until I added him. That was actually the first time I added a troublemaker to get their side and it worked pretty well. Infected is now labelled as Kosseuth on my friends list and he's a big help. He's alerted me to a hacker and a few micspammers and although he can get a little overzealous with it, he's a very helpful person to have on my friends list.
Do I have any reservations about Stan being given a shot? Yes, I told him that the whole impersonation thing was not doing him any favors, but I feel satisfied that he's learned from that. I had a couple other reservations (can't recall them), but they overshadowed by his maturity and willingness to learn.
My point is that although players have their bad days, given a chance, they can impress you. I think Stan can do the same, which is why I continue to support him. As I said, I'm not attempting to force you to support his app, but rather trying to illustrate that given a chance, people can improve significantly.
Tick Tock asked me if I know Stan outside of Darkly, and I truthfully responded No. We are actually on opposite sides of the country. I haven't even met Stan ingame, but he seems like a sensible guy with a good head on his shoulders. I've gotten a sense for who could make a good/bad Mod (in my opinion), and I can't recall being wrong yet. That's all I'm saying =)