basically if its family it doesnt matter to me provided it's used for something you need (food/rent etc) if you fuck up and gotta feed yer addiction (illicit substances specificlly) then you can fuck off.. but if your bills jump up and bend you over thats something different... i've had family save my ass with money when i was up shitcreek... and i dont forget who helps me when i need it... and i'm the first one to step to when they ask for help... whether its money or food or just lending a hand or being there to listen.. you help those yah care about when they are in need... its that simple.. and if they are decent people they'll be there to help you when you need it... otherwise they arent worth your time... family and friends are all that really matter... money is just stuff and stuff can be replaced... but knowing what the important shit is is both the hardest part and the best part